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3 Quick Tips On Making a Long Distance Relationship Work

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Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Nobody said it would be easy, things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things, the sweetest.

So below I have shared 3 helpful tips towards making your long distance relationship work!

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  1.    ALWAYS MAKE TIME FOR ONE ANOTHER

    Long distance relationships are hard enough, and causing your significant other to feel less important can really affect your relationship. The small things really do matter especially in a long-distance relationship. Making a schedule can save and change the relationship for the better. For example, video chatting in the morning and night can make you feel more closer and your bond in fact will get stronger. Always make sure to let your spouse know your working schedule. There is no worse feeling than calling your spouse 5 times, and your spouse answering 4 hours later. If you are busy or know you’re going to have a busy day, take a few seconds to simply shoot him/her a text to let them know, and not have them thinking the worst.

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  2.   MAKE EVERY ANNIVERSARY UNIQUE

    Anniversaries mark the day that you both decided on faithfully loving each other.  Your day most likely will consist of receiving a sweet good morning call, long paragraphs, and maybe some foreplay on the phone once the sun goes down.  Try to switch it up and not repeat the same thing. This can be a difficult task but really put your mind and heart into it.  Take it back to hand written letters. Maybe send them a second envelope with photo prints. Another great idea is sending them a teddy bear with a custom voice box and try getting them a teddy bear that’s their favorite color. Long distance relationship are very hard on special days like these so try to surprise him/her and catch a plane, especially on your 1-year anniversary.

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  3.   TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP SERIOUS

    Long distance relationship or not, why be in one if you do no take it as serious as you should? Its hard to prove yourself in a long-distance relationship because you are not physically there. Once you start showing effort and support, you will be taken seriously. Tell your family and friends, show them off on Facebook, and always prove to others and to yourself that you take the long-distance relationship very serious.   There will be brighter days and you guys will be together one day, this is only temporary 😊

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How To Keep Your Man Happy!

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How To Keep Your Man Happy

So exactly how do you keep your man happy?

 How to keep a man happy? Well the average woman will probably have a million responses. I can hear some of you now saying there is no exact way to keep a man happy because all men are not the same. I hear you, but ladies what I want you to know is that there are some basic steps that you can follow. If you can manage to follow some of these basic guidelines, then you can keep your man happy!

Men, no matter how different they are, are pretty simple when it comes to just a few things. Women however tend to be a bit more complex when it comes to satisfying our wants. Of course not all women are the same but then again this article isn’t about the ladies right?! So we won’t go in depth on that topic.

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How To Keep Your Man Happy

Let me add that the tips that I am about to break down for you will only be beneficial for the guy who is for you. I’m sure every woman has learned over the years that you can be everything to the wrong man. It doesn’t mean that would you did was wrong. It just means you did it with the wrong guy. There are some men out there that you can hit back bends for and swing from a chandelier and he will still leave you. That’s part of life.

Yet if you have a really good man who loves you and all you do is create an uncomfortable living space for him, then Houston we have a problem!

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The first issue that every woman tends to do at one point or another is NAGG!

Now sure we all end up nagging for some reason or another but men don’t like it! You will find him escaping the roar of the dragon everyday if he has to. He’ll go hang out with his friends more, or just disappear to avoid all of the nagging. To be honest it may even remind him of being a child who is getting fussed at. He’s a grown man, so he will definitely get away from you to keep his man hood alive. There is a way to get your point across to your man without nagging. Men are simple but not dumb. If you tell him what the issue is then give him the space to fix the problem. When you nag daily about it, you might as well push him out the door of your life. Be his peace of mind!

 

The next issue that we as ladies don’t do enough of is SUPPORT HIM!

How often do we carry long conversations to him about all of our problems and the things we want?! We never take the time to see about his needs. We never ask him what is bothering him. Ladies you have to be concerned about your man. Find out how his day was and if he is dealing with anything. Be that pillow that he can lay his head on and vent to. There are times that we can be a bit selfish of his needs. You have to remember that he is still human. If he feels he can’t talk to you and get that support, he’ll find someone else to vent to.

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Lastly ladies, stop expecting him to be someone he is not. Stop comparing him to your past relations. Stop trying to CHANGE HIM!

Most of you listen to your friend girls and take all of the wrong advice on trying to train a man to be something he is not. Now by all means you should push your man to be the best he can be, but don’t try to do a make-over stunt. You all remember the woman from the movie, “Two Can Play That Game” who fixed Bobby Brown’s teeth right? He started tripping on her. Let that man be all that he inspires to be for you without you trying to follow some rule book. A good man who loves you, will change for you by himself. He has been living with himself all his life so if he knows he has flaws that could affect your relation, he will happily work on them. If he doesn’t change to better the relationship then honey he just isn’t the one for you.

 

These are just a few tips towards keeping your man happy. Of course I could have added so much more but that will be saved for another topic. Now go home today and work on these three things, and see if you can make 2017 better than your past years!

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How To Keep Your Man Happy